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Our family is what we live for. It consists of the people to whom we return at the end of the day. As a responsible member of the family, you must ensure that you evolve as a family and mutually contribute to each other’s well-being. Hence we have put down a list of 100 ways which will inform you about ways to become a healthier family:

1)    Eat Together

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Have your meal together at the dining table. Studies have shown that those families who have meals together at the table without any digression are more likely to have a balanced body weight.


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TOP 100 BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE OF ALL TIME FOR YOUNG ADULTS

 

1. Take responsibility for your actions 

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Be accountable for whatever you do in the relationship, whether it’s good or bad. If you want to have a long healthy marriage, then it’s my suggestion that instead of blaming the other person or being irresponsible, you own up to whatever and however you are. That will be a matured as well as a romantic way to connect with your partner and work towards happiness and sadness and be there for both equally.


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Are you trying to conceive with your partner? Do you want to have a baby now? If you have been trying for quite some time and there are still no fruitful result out of it, maybe it is now the time for you to consider knowing and getting started with few tips you can make use in order to get pregnant successfully.

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Probably, there are things that you are doing wrong which causes for your pregnancy to be delayed and this is not the right time for you to correct those. Feel free to check the different tips on getting pregnant below:

Tip # 1: Set Doctor’s Appointment

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Before you totally think of the best ways to get pregnant, make sure that you will spend time in setting an appointment with your doctor and would consider having a general check up with you and your partner’s health. This is really important and could help you in having better idea on the things you have to do later on.

Tip # 2: Understand Your Menstrual Cycle

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Also, you have to make sure that you are going to understand how your menstrual cycle goes. The possible ovulation period of your body is important for you to know and understand to have better idea when could be the right time for you to have sex with your partner.

Tip # 3: Don’t Think About Sexual Positions

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There are some people that would say that sexual positions could help you in conceiving easily but you don’t have to think and spend a lot of time just for this. Just be comfortable with your partner, do your usual routines and that could already be the best tips for getting pregnant.

Tip # 4: Feet in the Air after Intercourse

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Probably, you have already heard about people telling you to set and have your feet in the air after having an intercourse with your partner. This is commonly recommended to most women out there to make sure that the sperm cells would have the right way inside their uterus and meet the egg cells for ovulation.

Tip # 5: Don’t Be Too Active

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Even though having sex is the basic way of getting pregnant, doing it regularly and almost every day might tire you out which could really be a reason on why you would not be able to conceive the baby that you want.

Tip # 6: Don’t Stress Yourself

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Make sure that you are not also going to stress yourself. Too much stress might greatly affect the condition of your body, making it tired and wasted. This could also the main reason of being out of focus while having sex and you would not want to have more problems because of this.  It would be better to do the following below:

  • Avoid over thinking of your problems
  • Have enough sleep
  • Find good hobbies and entertainment

Tip # 7: Have a Proper Diet

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A healthy and proper diet is also greatly important when it comes to getting pregnant. Even before you determine when to get pregnant, make sure that you are healthy enough and following a proper diet that would not just keep you fit but your possible baby as well.

Tip # 8: Take 400mcg Folic Acid

 

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All women, who are trying to conceive needs to take 400mcg folic acid per day, this vitamin helps for you to develop the brain and the body of your baby. This is also a good investment that you can consider in order to be assured that you are going to have the healthiest baby out there.

So, when you visit your doctor, make sure to get their prescription and buy folic acid in the market. It is also recommended to follow doctor’s prescription carefully.

Tip # 9: Say No to Smoking

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One of the most common reasons on why women are having a hard time in getting pregnant is that they are smoking. So, if you want to conceive now, consider quitting your smoking activities and prepare for the life you want to create.

Tip # 10: Cut the Alcohol

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Lastly, you should also cut the intake of alcohol. This could make your cells die even it is not yet coming out and released in your body so better stop as early as now.

If you do have other tips in your mind that was able to help you in getting pregnant or if you have questions for what is mentioned above, please do leave us a comment and let us know more about it.

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When you decide to marry your partner, you do it because you want to see yourself together for the rest of your life. Just like any other relationship, it doesn’t mean that you are now exempted from feeling what you are feeling when you are just boyfriend or girlfriend. You will still be exposed to misunderstandings. That is why you have to work things out to ensure that your marriage will be happy as ever.

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There is never a sure way on how to deal with marriage because there are varying personalities for everyone. What worked for others may not work for you that is why you have to assess yourself in order for you to know how you are going to make your marriage last forever and not to be compared to others that last for a couple of years only.
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Though we won’t really admit it, we base how attractive other people are on the first impression they make on us. Each of us has a personal preference as to how attractive the opposite sex is. Each of us has our own definition of adjectives such as cute, hot, and beautiful. It’s not a bad thing to be conscious about what kind of impression we leave to people we meet.

There is also truth in the saying “Love at first sight”, but we can mellow it down and turn it into “attraction at first sight”. A majority of relationships are based from the first thoughts we have about the other person. A great opportunity of getting to know someone is to go on a first date. You can plan out in advance if you want them to consider you as their ‘perfect first date’ but don’t make it too extravagant.

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So what to wear on a first date? Yes, they did agree to go on a date with you; which means that they like you already, but you can still improve it to create more sparks. Let’s break it down between genders shall we? Here’s what to do on a first date tips.

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Being in love will bring you to the cloud nine and the feeling seems surreal that you don’t want to wake up from it if it is only a dream. No one wants to end that feeling. In as much as possible, you nurture it and you nourish it so it will grow. Unfortunately, not every love story has a happy ending. It starts happily but the end can be the exact opposite.

Choosing to go separately

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No one can force two persons to stay together and pretend that everything is fine even if it no longer is. That is why; when the conflict gets serious, one of them decides to break the label and choose to go on their separate lives. Whatever the reason is for breaking up, the only real thing as of that moment is pain; the tingling sensation that pierce down to the bottom of your heart. So read on and consider some tips on how to survive a breakup.

First step: Let the emotion flow

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  • Accept the reality – There are many ways on how to deal with a breakup but no matter what those steps are, it seems like none of it can help especially when you are too drown with your emotions. Do not deny reality because it won’t help you. Accept the fact that all are gone and you are no longer officially connected. Yes, it hurts but denying the truth won’t do you any better.
  • Be rational – The process of letting go is very difficult but the magnitude of the pain is mainly caused by the memories that seem to go back to you. You remember the times when you are still together. Even if it hurts, always make your brain rule over your heart. Be rational. It may be hard but you have to try.
  • Pause and think in silence – It cannot be avoided that a moment of silence can bring all good memories back. If you want to make everything easier in dealing with a breakup, do not think of happy thoughts when you are with your ex, think of something different that will make you want to delete those times from your system. Try it and it will help you.

Second step: Think positively

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Let your mind work. Do not spend a lot of time thinking about what was lost. Exercise an optimistic view over what had happened to you. It is not like you will forever endure with that pain. Keeping yourself suffer from that pain is a choice and you also have the chance to get up and move on.

  • Optimism is the key – Think of it as a blessing in disguise. Draw positive thoughts. Think about it this way: There is something bigger and greater that is coming your way. Besides, there are more than billions of human being in this world and you can surely find someone better. If you know that you did nothing wrong for the relationship to turn upside down, then keep your head up. It is not your loss.
  • Stop overthinking – Let your mind rest. Thinking about what has ended over and over again will only inflict more pain. If you know that you are at the right side, you should not ponder over those things. If your partner did not see your worth, then why shed your tears over him/her? You will only look pathetic with that and for sure, you don’t want that to happen. So, get up.

Third step: Show that you are better off without them

It is not like you are going to pretend that you have fully recovered even if you are not. But you should not forever stay at your room and think about those memories. You cannot bring it back so why bother thinking about it repeatedly? Show to the world that it did not affected you and you are over it.

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  • Surround yourself with happy faces – Spread good vibrations. It cannot be denied that getting over a break up cannot be done by drowning yourself to tears overnight. But if you want to have faster recovery, you can do it. Always find time to hang out with happy people so that their laughter and their smiles will inspire you.

Going through a break-up is the worst feeling in this world but you have the discretion to choose how you will deal with it. It is never going to be easy. If you have been to a break-up, please leave a comment and share your story for everyone to gain insight or you can add more steps on this article.

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Timing is everything, especially when announcing your pregnancy. It’s not only a life-changing moment for you, but it’s also a life-changing moment for the father. If you’ve been trying to get a baby all this time, then congratulations! It’s the kind of news that the father is looking forward to. Is it more of a surprise pregnancy? Then you might need to walk through eggshells or consider your options before dropping the bomb on a boyfriend or even a casual lover.

When it comes to how to announce pregnancy, it’s all about reading the mood. It’s like romance, there’s a right time for the announcement in order for the listener to be more receptive to the idea. Of course, you can get more creative with it if you’re announcing it to friends and family with the father already in-the-know.

Ways You Can Announce You’re Pregnant

  • Pregnancy Announcing 101:

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Pregnancy is an event that can get you hyped and scared at the same time. This is the first time it’s happening to you and you don’t know what to do. It’s a miracle waiting to happen, and one of the cute ways to announce pregnancy is by being creative about it. Here are a few ideas you can use when announcing your pregnancy whether it came about a month ago by the doctor or just yesterday, through a pregnancy test.

It’s a special event and it’s kind of surreal to think that you have another human being inside of you. You can make your announcement to the new daddy more memorable by making it a night to remember for a good reason rather than a bad one. You can do it by a more serious approach, since this is a serious topic. If you want a no-frills talk with him, sit him down the couch and tell him directly what’s going on.

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  • Romantic Dinner:

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Have a romantic dinner and drop hints about having a future together. This is easier when you’re already married, but even if you’re not, the mood for romance can lead to a happier, more receptive welcome to the good news. When it comes to creative pregnancy announcements, few things can beat a candlelit dinner, a birthday cake, and the announcement written right on the cake when he asks, “Whose birthday is it? It’s not either of our birthdays today!”

You can also serve “baby food” to give him a hint all throughout the meal, from baby back ribs to baby carrots. Anything else you can order that gives him the hint will do. By the end of it, pour apple juice instead of wine in your glass and present him with a gift like baby shoes before making a toast and announcing your pregnancy to him. That’s certainly going to make it a night to remember for the new daddy.

  • Don’t Be Too Cute When Cluing In The Father:

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It might not be the best idea to act like the Riddler when announcing you’re pregnant. Don’t be too creative that it borders on making an abstract painting and him deciphering what you mean. Even if it’s obvious to you that placing a baby bottle, booties, and a large teddy bear at the dinner table that says, “Hi, Daddy!” means you’re pregnant, to him it might mean you’re being cute.

Don’t leave any room for doubt and don’t get angry when he scratches his head at all your clues and gives you a dumbfounded look while mouthing, “Are you mad? Am I in trouble?” at all the hints you’ve given. Tell it to him straight. Once he gets it, you’ll both be celebrating anyway, especially if you’ve been trying so hard to get a baby all this time.

  • Business Trips and Family Announcements:

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If the daddy is away on business, which means you can’t tell him right away that the one night you were together a month or two ago has resulted in offspring, then there’s a solution for that. Send him a care package with baby items with it as well as an outright announcement because when everything is said and done, men are a straightforward kind of gender who need to be told straight out what’s going on.

You can even ask him to give the baby his or her name. Once everything is clarified with him, now you two can think up of ways to tell your friends and family the deal when it comes to your pregnancy. As for the creative ways to announce pregnancy to family, you can send photos depicting storks or you baking gingerbread babies in the oven for preparation of an upcoming new member. You can even showcase small shirts or even a cradle for the upcoming little one.

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If only there is a guarantee of a happy ending, then many people shouldn’t have shed their tears over a relationship that has come to an end. If only there are pain-free solutions when you fall in love, then no one should have been crying by now. Unfortunately, love is in itself complicated which makes it very difficult to understand as well. You love in the hope of becoming happy but you sometimes fail.

Having your heart broken by someone you really love is the worst feeling in this world. It feels like you have been betrayed by someone whom you thought the least who will inflict pain to you but then you are sadly mistaken because the one whom you treated as your everything is the one who made it happen and it hurts. It seems that the world is crushing on you.

Tips on how to get over a broken heart

  • Feel the pain:

Feel Pain

Do not deny anything. Cry everything that you have to cry. Do not waste any single moment trying to deny that you have broken up because it will not make your situation any better. Just accept the fact and feel the pain until it hurts no more.

There is no point in trying to escape from it. Why not try to face it? You can cry all night as long as you want to, it can help you a lot than trying to deny that it doesn’t hurt.

  • Pour all your emotions

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Throw out everything that you have in your heart. Cry as long as you want until you feel that your eyes got exhausted and your heart feels no more pain because it got numb with what you are feeling. It hurts but you cannot do anything. Let go of that inner pain that you are feeling inside your heart.

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  • Throw all the things that are associated with your ex

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This may sound desperate but it is one of the best things that you should do to help yourself move on. If you want to forget someone, you should cut all things that connect you to him/her. You will find it very hard to forget that person when you can still see things that reminds you of him/her.

  • Do not attempt to communicate with your ex nor stalk him/her at social networking sites

You cannot easily get over your ex if there are still connection between the two of you. In as much as possible, cut the connection immediately. Leave his/her account alone and do not try dropping by at it.

  • Divert your attention

The process of healing a broken heart is a tough process. It requires your willingness to let go whatever it is that you are still holding on. Let go of everything that is causing too much weight in your heart and learn to focus your attention to something else.

Have fun and you will soon forget how the pain feels like and you will completely laugh about how stupid you have become during the first phase of your breakup.

Tips on how to deal with a broken heart

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Everyone can have their heart broken. Going separately and choosing to end the relationship is one of the most common causes of a broken heart. But you have to accept it because it is a normal thing in a relationship. People come and go. However, there are ways on how you can deal with it.

  • Accept that it is over

You don’t want it but you have to face the reality that your end has come. Do not keep on holding on to something that no longer exist. The love don’t easily vanish but you have to try harder not to dwell on it for too long because it can destroy you if you do.

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  • Think of it as a new beginning

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Be optimistic. Every ending has a new beginning. It might be the right time for you to change and fix yourself for the better.  Do not waste your time crying your heart out but think of something else to be productive.

Everyone is exposed to having their heart broken but it is up to a person on how to deal with it. Some think of it as the end of their world because they are blinded by their emotions but when you find yourself in this situation, try to be rational. What do you think will you do? Leave a comment and share steps you think will help a lot.

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A popular case in America is divorce. It’s like both partners will go back to single status but in different level. The Dissolution of marriage signifies from being united to disunion. The family you have known, love, and where you felt belongingness will be separated and allows you to wonder “where will I go after this?”

The effects of broken marriage or relationship due to infidelity are not to be disregarded as a normal issue in society.  A strong family in a community would mean a strong society. That is why it is very important to maintain a united family because it brings progress and peace in a community. However, there is no perfect relationship, a couple would always fight or quarrel over simple matter or issue. When this doesn’t reconcile it would lead to separation, annulment or divorce. It is always our responsibility to make our family strong and complete. Each spouse has their own responsibility for one another to maintain that sparks and connection to stay together and forever.

What happens to children of divorced parents?

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Your mother and father will no longer sleep together and they don’t have rights to each other, and it is very distressing. You will somehow ask “How should I act?” It’s like you’ve been in a war without an enemy because you both value your parents. We all know that every family has different trainings, bonding, treatment, and our styles are very unlikely to each other. As Kathleen O’Connell Corcoran, Ph.D says in her article “The children who succeed after divorce, have parents who can communicate effectively and work together as parents.”

This means that even though a couple is getting a divorce, they should somehow see to it that their children will come to terms with the situation as well.

The psychological effects of divorce on children and reactions to their parents’ divorce vary in degree dependent on three factors:

  1. The children’s personal relationship on each parent before the separation
  2. The duration and how intense their parent’s conflict is
  3. The capability of each parent in handling their relationship with the kids after the legal separation. With proper communication, the recovery of the children can be expected.

You may doubt the term easily so I will give you synonyms of the word “easy”, accessible, clear, painless, and uncomplicated. It doesn’t mean that they will not undergo pain but it emphasizes lesser pain, access to parents is easy if parent’s ability to focus the needs of the children is not taken for granted. If parents handle the intensity and duration of parental conflict in rightly manner and will not let the children hear their fights, the divorce effects on children will lessen including fear, stress, and pain.

How divorce affects children and single mothers?

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There are programs which are available in single mother resource centers or offices which are offered by various groups including some government agencies. These are meant to make the lives of the single mothers more comfortable as well as offer them some support.

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  1. Those single mothers who are victims of domestic violence can seek refuge in centers which can also provide them with temporary accommodation. There are various types of assistance which are offered to these women which would include legal assistance as well as counseling for them as well as their children. There are also programs that would allow them to go back in the mainstream later on.
  2. Programs for skills trainings as well as education are also available in most centers. These programs aim to make the single mothers become more productive economically. It hopes to make them more self-sufficient and provide for the children.
  3. Some centers or institutions provide the single mothers a start-up capital for some business ventures. This is made possible through the small grants and loans which would offer them lower and more affordable interest rates. To supplement their skills, they are also offered additional trainings on how to manage their business well as well as how to make it bigger. They are equipped with skills necessary for the operation of their business ventures.

One of the integral parts to recover or heal from a broken relationship is to forget or forgive. Make an assessment whether you forgive or forget and be very serious about your decision. Talk to your partner what will be the priority now. Deal every decisions made accordingly without regret.

Have you been through a divorce before? Share your thoughts below on the comment section.

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Looking for the right and best places to get married has been one of the most challenging parts on most couples out there. There could be a number of places for them to choose from but there will only be one that could probably suits their preferences and needs.

Actually, this is one of the basic preparations you have to do and take when you are planning for your wedding day and this is something for you to know even before you totally determine how to get married. But, there is really nothing for you to worry about this anymore because there are only simple things you have to know and keep in your mind.

In this article, you will get started in knowing almost everything you have to know when choosing the best place where you can get married even before you start learning how to get married at the courthouse.

Before You Choose a Wedding Place

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The first time you have decided that you want to get married; there could be a number of places that would start to pop up in your mind. You will eventually think of different beaches, hotels, and other places that you can consider for your wedding day. But, before anything else, there are some important things you have to do and understand about this.

To have better idea for the wedding place that probably be considered as best for you and your partner, make sure to consider the following things below:

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  • Get to know the number of guests that you want to invite for your wedding day including your family members and others.
  • Determine the possible budget you have in your hand and get to know the amount you can make use in renting a venue for your wedding.
  • You must also need to consider the availability of transportation as well.
  • Ask for the common wedding places being considered by your friends, relatives and other people you know in order to have a better idea on the different options you have.
  • You can do make researches in the internet for the wedding places being considered by a lot of couples out there and easily look for one that is best for you.
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The Basic Planning of Wedding

Planning of Wedding“I want to get married,” the same statement is being said by a lot of women and men out there but there will only be few of them who would really become successful on this and would tend to have the best experience on their wedding day.

A wedding day is not just a simple event and this could happen once in your life so you have to make sure that this would be really possible and you are going to have the best wedding day ever. When you are starting with your plan, it would be ideal for you to talk with your partner about this.

The wedding you will have is not just for you but for the two of you so don’t even think of deciding on yourself and who knows if your partners also have better ideas for the places that you can consider especially in your area. With the help of your partner, it would be a lot easier for both of you to make a decision and make your wedding day a memory that you will never forget for the rest of your lives.

Tips in Choosing the Best Wedding Place

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On the other hand, there are some useful tips that you can make use when you are choosing the wedding place where you can get married. Probably, you have been having a hard time in making a decision for this but don’t worry about that as you can consider the following things below:

  • You can check different wedding places reviews in the internet to get started on the features, sceneries and things you can expect from the options you have in the market.
  • If you are hiring a wedding planner, they could have better ideas on the different places that you can consider so spend time in asking them for any recommendations and also determine the right one for you.
  • Make sure that you will pay a visit on the different places and see it for yourself. This could give you a better background and impression on the place and easily get to know if this is really the one you are looking for or not.
  • It is the best to consider spending months in planning for this and don’t rush yourself for better experience.

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